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Re: “The Anti Gold Digger

WARNING SIGNS OF REAL GOLDIGGERS ARE:

( REMEMBER goldiggers can be male OR female)

The BIGGEST sign ,which is difficult to disguise and hide , is that they are generally very lazy people, who have long term plans of STEALING EVERYTHING which somebody else worked very hard for their entire life. Because they have no work ethic, no integrity,(and often just pretend to have ambition) but are actually very lazy, they will never work in their life for a long period of time for little money.

They might have worked for little money for a SHORT period of time, such as in student days because they had to , but they will not work HARD or LONG HOURS for little money for VERY LONG PERIODS of time. Never.They will still spin you this story of how hard they had to work in their student days for example , when they dont even know the meaning of hard work ,or working long hours for no pay.

They will see where they can get quick and easy money for no effort, and I am not talking about when they are desperate. People that are in financial need and desperate may also need quick easy money, but Real goldiggers will ALWAYS and ONLY work for quick ,easy money.They will usaully also overcharge people, because they will not work HARD or LONG for little money!!!

1) They will pretend to like all the things you like,such as hobbies etc and put on a huge act that he/she loves you. Will also try to please person in bed, especially if she is a woman going for a man , as she will know men are into sex.

2)Will only go out / and have a HISTORY of only having gone out with rich men/woman who are not stingy , and who will spend their money on the other person. They will never have gone out with somebody poor, or average or rich who does not pay for this and pay for that .They WILL go out with poor, and average people, provided that person pays for the great majority of all bills .

3)Will quickly end a relationship if he/she sees that he/she is not getting material gain the way they hoped.

4)Warning signs in early dating are :
Expects the other person to pay for everything. ESPECIALLY letting the other person pay for the very much largest portion of rent, petrol , clothing, and anytime they go out ,letting the other person pay the largest portion,while only contributing a menial percent to everything that needs to be paid for themselves.

WIll often even lie about their income so that they can get away with paying only a menial part of everything.

5) Making no effort to improve on education or get a better job to make the payments a TRUE 50/50 deal.

6)Coming up with very lame and pathetic excuses that they need to stay at home even once their children have gone to school , and they are actually in a perfect position to start working again,but just want to stay at home and do nothing , for as long as possible.

7) VERY TYPICAL IS: Saying that the children and household are soooo much work, when in reality if you filmed them secretly, you will find out the housework and work with the children does not take as long AT ALL , as they always pretend!!!!

....you will ACTUALLY find the housework and children take up maximum two to four hours a day depending - MAXIMUM.(Who in the working world has a three hour day?) The rest of the day they SECRETLY spend watching TV and having a gossip with friends at the local coffe shop , and spending husbands money on a shopping spree. ( By the way I have done the housework and children thing, I really do know how long it takes, AND I am neat and take do the work properly) Sorry Goldiggers ,there is no exuse you can try and rub in my face here!!!

I wish that somebody would do a secret camera thing with the spoilt brat housewives to catch them out on all their lies and excuses, so that they can forever continue their lazy and entirely self-serving life of luxury at someone elses expense.

8)Goldiggers will push for rich men to marry them very EARLY on in the relationship , before they loose their darling goldbags to another person.....

Community of property OR NOT -does not matter-
Community of property marriage pushers are the biggest warning sign!!,....
however even if they are not in community ,if hubi pays for almost everything all the time,its still a very big reason to stick around, is it not?

A goldigger will definatly accept both-provided of course that the rich husband is not a stingy type, and will pay LITERALLY FOR EVERYTHING that needs to be paid for, or will pay a very great amount of what needs to be paid for,-while the other party will contribute perhaps 5 percent, if at all.

9)Goldiggers will get out of a relationship quite soon if their goldbags dont marry them SOON, before there is the danger of loosing their goldbags to somebody else....They will not wait around for a rich guy for ever, unless maybe he already always spoils her rotten... and will continue doing so if they are married of course...

Some might use the excuse that they want children and are pushed for time, just so that their precious pot of gold will marry them . ( Not because they really want children) Just step carefully here , because there are both types , those that are pushed for time and really want children , and those that are not , and dont actually want children.

Remember that child maintainance pays out much more than what the child actually costs, which the law should never ,ever allow!!However ,because this IS so, you get some woman who will pretend to want children from rich dads , just to cash out on the child maintainance in the end. They then go and spend that money, not on their children ,but on themselves.

(Typical example is the selfish goldigger FLING of BORIS who deliberatly fathered a child with Boris Becker for financial gain!!!)

10)Very typical also is pretending that they are soooo overworked ( yes , I was a houseman(average size house) and a father,and child carer (3 kids) for a long time myself, I do know) -

Pretending they are sooo overworked they need a househelp to help clean ,and to help look after the children. Husband who initially doesnt know how quickly things CAN actually be done , then still forks out for THAT as well , -besides all the luxuries he already gives the spoilt brat.

The best thing to do to prevent goldiggers is :

11) Let her/him(remember it can be both genders) pay HALF Of literally EVERYTHING that needs to be paid for, and see how long the relationship lasts. Will she still stick around if she needs to pay for HALF OF water, rent , electricity , all meals and also yes,

also HALF OF THE BOND!!!!!THE BOND BEING SUCH A MASSIVE EXPENSE!!!! HALF, not one tenth,not one quarter but HALF!!!Remember this!!!

Test this for AT LEAST three to five years before you even CONSIDER to marry her.

12) If for some reason she earns much less and cant pay half at the moment , then lower your stand of living. Go live in a small apartment block so that she can pay half of the rent /bond , water ,electricity and half of all meals.You MUST lower your stand of life or else she could still use you for having a high standard of life for herself , which she could never afford herself.How convenient if she shares your massive house and only ever has to pay 10 percent of the bond , which she would never be able to do on her own.

13) Dont take her out to expensive restaurants and hotels all the time, because that is begging for trouble, and not knowing how genuine she is.You will just HAVE TO drop your standard of life- there is NO other option to see if she means it honestly.Just plain simply dont buy her any gifts at all, not even cheaper ones.End of story.She can buy her own things if she wants them.

14) IN SHORT: if she cant pay half of everything, lower your standard of life and THEN let her pay half of everything.

15) Never IN YOUR ENTIRE LIFE let her know that you, OR YOUR FAMILY are rich , or she could be clinging to you for money and security .

THE BASIC RULE IS LET HER PAY HALF OF LITERALLY -EVERYTHING
AND I MEAN HALF OF EVERYTHING:

WOMAN NOWADAYS ALSO HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO MAKE MONEY ,AND TO HAVE A GOOD PAYING EDUCATION, AND A GOOD PAYING JOB.WE ARE NOT IN THE EARLY PART OF THE CENTURY ANY MORE , AT ALL, WHERE WOMAN WERE PAID LESS, AND WHERE THEY ONLY HAD VERY LIMITED OPTIONS.WE DO NOT LIVE IN THAT AGE ANY LONGER ,AT ALL.!!!

-IF SHE CANT AFFORD IT,AT THE MOMENT ,DROP YOUR STANDARD OF LIFE AND THEN- LET HER LITERALLY PAY HALF OF EVERYTHING. LET HER PAY HALF OF EVERYTHING -

NOT,NOT JUST IN THE FIRST COUPLE OF MONTHS,TO TEST HER,- BUT FOR EVER AND EVER AS LONG AS YOU ARE TOGETHER- OF ELSE YOU WILL JUST NEVER KNOW WHY SHE IS WITH YOU!!!







Posted by Marcus on 06/16/2009 at 8:08 AM

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