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Re: “The Anti Gold Digger

Eve in this story is not necessarily a goldigger. I dont know this person and dont have enough details from people to make a real judgement.
However:She may well not have NOT wanted to get involved with these guys AT ALL! Woman sometimes become involved as an emotional cure to either lonliness, a life problem, or having been abused, and use it as a form of affirmation because they have low self-esteem.

A cuddle sponser, especially, sounds like she was seeking affirmation and really never wanted to become involved.Sounds much more likely that the men pushed her over the boundries,and that she may have been compromising for a gap in her life.Men are the ones that often push to see how far they can get with sex,even though the woman may not want it at all.

A goldigger usually hangs onto her boyfriend with money, and would not, like Eve, risk having several men at once. Although you do get cases like that . What exatly makes you so sure there was something going on with all of her male friends?You havent even questioned the friends! The real question is how many times have these guys paid , and how many times has she paid ?How much? And was she after the guys or were the guys after her? What were her true intensions and what was these mens intentions?( Could she have been a vulnerable target that they were trying to shoot down just for easy sex?)Or was there never anything more?
It seems too many assumptions are being made.

How do you know she did not contribute half of every meal or pay every second meal if you did not interview any of the guys?Even if the guys contributed a SMALL percentage more at times, due to more earnings perhaps, this sounds very trivial indeed, and not like she was a goldigger.However I dont know this person , and would have to interview the guys involved , and many of her friends ,and many aquantainces, and herself to make a true,fair and accurate judgement.

If she was a real goldigger she would be after marriage and not just after a relationship, normally, since there is much more to gain in marriage.( pre-nup or not) she would want to hang onto a man with cash and want marriage so she is more secure, and knows that she is not wasting her time with this guy. These days however people can even claim when living together ,(but its not an easy process!) so I dont know.

Eve is very right in saying that if a guy buys his girl expensive gifts and pays for everything, MOSTLY there will be sex involved.She is not wrong about that.Unfortunatly that is the sad reality of what really happens. Just because she commented on it , what makes you think she must be doing the same???




Posted by D.D. on 07/18/2009 at 4:48 AM

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