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Re: “Dan Savage: Should You Tell Him or Her That You're Cheating? Or Keep it Secret?

James and I were together for 3 years and lived together for two until he was moved to another state for job in March of last year.Sept was the last time we spent time together.We went for a vacation and had a fabulous time,not knowing it would be the last time I would see him.He stopped calling Nov,and just sent me a text saying he did not want to talk.I did not pursue it because I thought he just needed some space.March came rolling in,and I found out he got married.How could it be?I found out,shortly before we started dating,he was communicating with a girl from another country and made a trip there once and proposed to her.He made another trip in 2015.She finally came to the country Jan of this year and I figured the reason he dumped me was when he found out she was approved to come to the US.I made the huge mistake of going to the social media and found the womans posts of their wedding and trips,etc.That hurt me more than I could imagine.It has been 8 months since Ive seen him but just cant get him out of my head.Honestly,I feel very jealous of his now.I wake up in the morning feeling nonexistent,empty and wishing I dont wake up so I dont have to feel the same pain I could never get accustomed to.The deceit and the fact that I was used and hurt so bad that I dont think I could move past it.I decide to seek the help of a psychologist because I knew I was losing it. As I searched the internet, I found cases similar to mine and some,even worse.But all of them sang praises of a man whom helped them restoring their broken relationships,marriages and familyDr Kene Dilli. I was supprised and decided to give it a try as I contacted his email I found in those testimonies; {kenedillitemples AT yahoo DOT com}. Behold,after doing all he instructed,he sent me a parcel plus the steps needed as reguarding the parcel.Now,I have got back my loverJames,and he has filed for a divorce with the other lady he married. #HappyToBeBackWithJames.

Posted by henderzabeth on 10/22/2016 at 1:32 AM

Re: “Dan Savage The Sports Writer Comes Off the Bench for Dan Savage the Sex Columnist

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Posted by odia on 10/21/2016 at 1:42 PM

Re: “Dan Savage: Discusing Trump, Misogyny and Sexual Predators with your Daughter

I was roller skating (metal skates tightened with a key) as a youngster very close to in front of my suburban home in Wakefield MA when a strange man exposed himself to me - I really had no idea what this was and stared. I don't recall him saying anything but he might have. He moved on and I went home. I don't recall whether I told my mother vaguely thinking it might have somehow been "my fault" - my mother was a classic over-reactor and would have gone after him with a baseball bat or worse and made a real scene - which I didn't like to see at the time! Nothing happened or so I thought but I never ever forgot the occurrence. I may have been six or eight when this happened. All this Trump stuff in the headlines is very distasteful to many.

Posted by Francesca M. Austin on 10/19/2016 at 12:19 PM

Re: “Dan Savage: Senior Moments (AKA Questions from 'Sexagenarians')

After my second marriage ended, I did not date for 5 or so years. I reasoned, "After 30 years of bad sex, why would I want any more?" Then there was a tragic death in our family that laid me low. My cousins encouraged me to think about dating again. Because I respect their judgment, I put myself out there on various dating sites with no luck. Being a smart girl, I find that lots of men find me intimidating. Then I found the right site, and the right man. We had great chemistry and wonderful days together for 6 years. There are lots of ways to enhance your libido even in your 60s. Testosterone creams can enhance orgasms, homone creams for vagina help manage moisture and flesibility of tissue. But mainly, it was so life-affirming to touch someone who delighted in touching me back. That relationship ended but I have been seeing another man for nearly four years now. Give it a try.

Posted by Deborah Lagutaris on 10/13/2016 at 12:19 AM

Re: “Dan Savage: Should You Tell Him or Her That You're Cheating? Or Keep it Secret?

How to save your relationship and married When your partner Wants a Divorce

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Posted by James Brown 1 on 10/08/2016 at 10:14 PM

Re: “Dan Savage: Should You Tell Him or Her That You're Cheating? Or Keep it Secret?

'Your' Cheating? Really EBX? Are copy editors extinct?

Posted by Tom Cushing on 09/28/2016 at 1:00 PM

Re: “Dan Savage: Should You Tell Him or Her That You're Cheating? Or Keep it Secret?

I was in a 5 yr relationship with a man i loved so dearly.The first six months was wonderful.We used to talk and share our thoughts,our fears....Something happened..We (he) stopped being honest .It created a whirlwind of insecurity.The more i became insecure because of his dishonesty,the more it spiralled and we spent 4 and a half years of arguments,despite the fact that we loved each other.I truly believed that love conquered all.It doesnt....he left me 7 months ago.It was the most painful thing that ever happen to me,but you know i still love him...Now i realize i need help to get him back again in my life so i contacted a spell caster online called Dr happy at his email who help and gave me hope after 6 hours of his love spell, my boyfriend call me and apology and now we are happily married as husband and wife all thanks to Dr he is truly a father once more contact him at for any help coz he is the best of all spell casters. we all deserve happiness, in our marriage life and relationship, Add him on Whats-pp +2348133873774??????.

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Re: “No on 60

This obviously does not apply to Mr. Small Hands, but it does to the Orange Buffoon, Mr. Smallfinger:

Posted by Nicholas Sher on 09/20/2016 at 4:58 PM

Re: “Why Does He Watch Porn?

Just as my instinct had told me, but was too blinded by husband is sleeping with my best friend. O God! He is even in love with her. I even was informed about this by an attendant at one of the grocery stores I patronize, but rebuked her rudely and angrily because I taught she had an eye on my husband. Times went on and days went past...I was living a life of ''blinded by love''. My husband and I have been married for 3 years now and I was surprised when I found out he has been living a ''happily married life'' of presence and deceit with me just because of my financial flamboyancy. This was how I found out about them (my husband and my best friend)...There was going to be a dinner for couples that resided in the estate, since it was the estate feast day. But I was down with an unknown illness so I told my husband that we wouldn't be able to make it to the dinner due to my condition and he agreed (this was on a Monday morning and the dinner was dated for Friday). The next day, I called my dad and complained to him about my illness which the doctor had examined and told me there wasn't anything wrong with me, of which i knew wasn't true because I was going through hell inside of my body. My dad told me not to worry and asked me to contact our long time known herbal doctor (Dr. Payo Shalo) (who has been God sent to my family in terms of spiritual help; he helped cure my dad off cancer, my mom off fibroid, my brother was awarded a contract with the world bank, just by his spells) on his email (payospiritsshalospells''AT''yahoo''DOT''com) which I did. I didn't get a reply from him till Thursday morning which he explained and blamed on his busy schedules with other of his customers that sought spiritual help. We swung into actions with the procedures of getting me cured of this unknown killer disease that was bent on getting rid of my life. I did all I was instructed by the doctor (herbal). On Friday morning, my husband woke up and told me he was going to be away for about 3 days on a business conference. When he left, I contacted the doctor for the final rites. When everything was done, by 1:45pm just as the doctor had promised, I was well again. I called my dad and informed him about this miracle. I went to my parent’s house which I haven't been able to do in a long while because of the illness...everyone was happy. I was with my parents till evening, and after having dinner with them, I went to bed. Just as I was going to sleep, I got a call from a neighbor in my estate telling me that she could just see my husband with another lady at the estate's dinner for couples. I couldn't believe what she was telling me. Immediately, I drove to the venue and my eyes saw my ears... my husband just leaving in his car with my best friend. I couldn't believe my eyes, so I tailed them for about 15mins and they drove into a hotel...hmmm. I went back to my apartment and without hesitation I called Dr. Payo Shalo and told him of what I just found out. I told him I needed an urgent spell to make my husband develop sudden hatred for my best friend and immediately come back to me as soon as then. The doctor told me what to do, late that night, I got everything done. At about 3:18am on Saturday morning, my door opened. Who is this in my house this early? ...My husband? In tears, he is confessing all he had been doing with my best friend and asking me to forgive him and accept him as the husband he used to be ... I wept my eyes out. I immediately forgave him for I love him with all my heart. Now, my husband and I are living faithfully to each other and my illness, gone forever. Are you in need of any kind of spiritual, medical, financial help? Please contact Dr. Payo Shalo on the above email address for your rapid solutions. (Re-write the email in its right form)

Posted by Sara Kent on 09/18/2016 at 1:15 PM

Re: “Dan Savage: How Can Sex Worker Clients Fight to Legalize Sex Work?

In response to Amy Luna Manderino: I would ask her to cite a single peer-led sex worker organization that supports the so-called "Nordic model".

The Global Network of Sex Worker Projects -- the international alliance of such peer-led sex worker groups -- has consistently condemned Sweden's "sex purchase" law and its clones in other countries, with research showing how it has led to increased harms to sex workers and others.

Meanwhile, a group of us have heeded the call started by Maggie McNeill and echoed here by Dan Savage, and begun CoSWAC - Clients of Sex Workers Allied for Change. We invite everyone to check out our site:

Posted by Desmond Ravenstone on 09/17/2016 at 6:48 AM

Re: “Beware a Bigger Clitoris

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Posted by Johnson Teddy on 09/13/2016 at 3:29 PM

Re: “Why Does He Watch Porn?

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Re: “Beware a Bigger Clitoris

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Posted by Zaki Bovane on 09/02/2016 at 1:37 PM

Re: “Dan Savage: How Can Sex Worker Clients Fight to Legalize Sex Work?

Seems like some jurisdictions always have to blame someone for consenting adults engaging in paid-for sex.

Posted by Sera Pinkle on 08/31/2016 at 7:55 PM

Re: “Dan Savage: How Can Sex Worker Clients Fight to Legalize Sex Work?

Join the fight! One of the plaintiffs in the ESPLERP v Gascon case, the historic case challenging the (un)constitutionality of the anti prostitution law in California, wants to be a client. You can make a donation online to ensure your rights will be recognized too. @esplerp

Posted by mistressmax3db9 on 08/31/2016 at 6:49 PM

Re: “Dan Savage: How Can Sex Worker Clients Fight to Legalize Sex Work?

A timely contribution. Indeed, since Maggie McNeill posted her call for clients to organize, a handful of us have been beginning plans towards that end - with Maggie and other sex workers as advisers.

Posted by Desmond Ravenstone on 08/31/2016 at 4:58 PM

Re: “Dan Savage: How Can Sex Worker Clients Fight to Legalize Sex Work?

Thank you for this excellent article about our clients. The so called Nordic Model allows abuse by cops who use the laws to threaten to arrest our clients if we do not provide them with sex, money or information. The reason that the Nordic model does not work is because any time you penalize the purchaser of a service, the laws can only be enforced arbitrarily and selectively, giving cops the leverage to extort sex workers. How about just arresting the people who actually abuse another person, when and if a criminal report is filed. Pursuing the non violent, non abusive clients, employers and associates of consenting adult sex workers means that scarce and valuable resources are squandered, leaving nothing to help the real victims. From 1991 to 2014, there were 6,251,076 reported violent rapes and sexual assaults, but cops managed to apprehend only 651,107 predators, leaving 5,599,969 victims without justice. (stats from the FBI Bureau of Justice Statistics, tables #5 and 69), Those who demand an 'end the demand' are ensuring that even fewer real predators are apprehended while their pathetic agenda to abolish all commercial sex leaves ALL women more vulnerable.…

Posted by Norma Jean Almodovar on 08/31/2016 at 2:13 PM

Re: “Dan Savage: How Can Sex Worker Clients Fight to Legalize Sex Work?

Thanks for the smart words about sex work! Here is a link to a former project about education for clients. Since then the shame based John's school program, specifically SAGE, has closed down in San Francisco, however the DA is still running a shaming program. Clients are in the crosshairs around the world. Here is a collection of material for further info.

Posted by ScarlotHarlot on 08/31/2016 at 11:34 AM

Re: “Dan Savage: How Can Sex Worker Clients Fight to Legalize Sex Work?

The issue of whether or not to legalize sex work is complicated and there are reasoned arguments on both sides. Even Savage himself notes that the Nordic model is "much-touted" but neglects to offer why. It's called the Nordic model because it's already been implemented in countries that have tracked its effectiveness. Savage does a disservice to this issue and effectively silences the sex workers who "tout" the Nordic model by only representing one side of this debate and only offering the sources that support his views. When you present one side and suggest that you are speaking for all who are effected by an issue, that's called "propaganda." That would be like asking about the Black Lives Matter movement and only quoting articles by members of law enforcement. That's what Savage has done and it's a disservice to the issue and to the women and men who both work in and have dealt with the sex industry who disagree with Savage's one-sided presentation of the issue. In addition, his celebratory, fun tone regarding sex work completely ignores the epidemic problem of child sex slavery, as many sex workers are first pimped while under the legal age of consent. Speaking of pimps, Savage also conveniently left them out of the discussion, as well. While Savage shows empathy for the people who buy sex, he appears to have zero empathy or awareness for the children who are pimped into forced prostitution or the women who are trafficked across borders for forced sex work. Nor does he offer any solutions for those heinous human rights violations.

Posted by Amy Luna Manderino on 08/31/2016 at 7:56 AM

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