What I'm getting from her rant is that she does not sleep around. Hmm, I wonder how she got pregnant then. Immaculate DE-ception? You clearly have a USING complex. You ARE, a player. And You will NEVER, EVER, have Integrity, or even know what it means. Let me clue you in on something, there are still a lot of us out here who Do believe in the sanctity of marriage, who do have Moral Standards, who hang on to our Integrity with a death grip. Why you aren't filled with self loathing is beyond me. Stop your self deception, you KNOW what you realy are.

Dear Kathleen Richards

I smell a rat here .Very much so. Im a good detective, and I detect underlying non-sense from far . I detect that the culprit is you (the writer) and not Eve!

ITS SOOO OBVIOUS THAT THE GOLDIGEER IS YOU.YOU KNOW EXATLY WHAT A REAL GOLDIGGER IS , AND YOU KNOW, THAT YOU, ARE PROBABLY THE BIGGEST ONE IN THE UNIVERSE.

It really sounds to me as tough your boyfriend was two timing or something,or attempted to , and Eve DID NOT know that he has another woman, and now you have a vendetta against Eve. Or the scenario could have also been different.:

Perhaps your boyfriend was hitting on her , and she was not even interested in him.Just because he was hitting on her, does not mean whatsoever she was interested or went for him at any point im time.

Have you ever thought of all the other possibilities???

Perhaps Eve was really just very lonely,or had emotional troubles, and was seeking to be close to people,was really just seeking a hug and affirmation from a guy .She perhaps REALLY did genuinely intend to just be friends with the guys, and never wanted it to go beyond a hug, but because the MEN who are known to be addicted to sex , pushed her for sex, and because she was vulnerable and lonely ,and gullible,she allowed this.Only for that reason and not because she was seeking "sponsers" AT ALL!!!

I can tell you right now that Eve was not a goldigger AT ALL. What is a breakfast that is being sponsered, especially if that guy friend perhaps had much more money perhaps?Also like I said how do you know that Eve didnt give everything she could aswell, from her side , and gave everthing that her salary allowed her to give?

Perhaps she earned little money, and as in marriages with financial diffrences, the guy friend was in a position to spend a A BIT more at times.

A real goldigger chooses a rich guy ,does not want to work, and especially will NEVER work hard for little money, and she will push for that guy to marry her in community of property .A real golddigger will push for millions of a fortune she never worked for !

A real goldigger will expect a guy to pay for this and pay for that, and herself only pay five percent of everything that needs to be paid,even she could give more.

.A real goldigger may also NOT marry in community , but have a rich guy that buys her a car, pays for almost EVERYTHING, all the time,(the bond included) while she pays for nothing , and makes no effort, and will NEVER work hard for LITTLE money. Those are the telltale signs of a REAL goldigger!!!

WAKE UP!!!!

How do you know that Eve did not EQUALLY sponser those guys for lunch and breakfast and movies???What makes you think that there was sex going on with ALL of them?It sounds to me like you are a very insecure and also a very jealous person . You very much sound like a person who gets jealous and insecure for now reason at all..Getting suspicious for no reason at all. Perhaps you should rather question your BOYFRIEND and HIS loyalty and not that of the other woman!!

Perhaps she really just had one boyfriend, and the other ones were really just male friends. Believe it or not, but not all of us see the opposite sex as boyfriends,or sponsors!!!

Sorry Miss Richards, but I really have to wonder weather YOU are not the goldigger who lost her boyfriend to Eve, and Eve was really innocent and unknowing , because YOUR sly boyfriend lied to her and didnt say he was in a relationship?

Or it is also highly likely that your boyfriend is very rich and YOU are the one sponging off him in a big way,and planning to claim his fortune??

AND you are very scared of loosing your boyfriends fat paychecks(which he MUST be the type to spend his money on YOU ) Eve ,WHO PROBABLY DOES NOT GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOUR PATHETIC BOYFRIEND NOW HAS TO TAKE THE BRUNT FOR YOUR INSECURITIES!!Just because he made advances on her , does not mean that she is interested in him whatsoever,OR using him as a sponser!!!

I really think you got the totally wrong idea about Eve and that YOU are actaully the goldigger OR you are just very,very insecure.

Eve does not sound like a goldigger whatsoever. It sounds like you might be exagerating a story, and are jumping to your own conclusions , and are very scared to loose your pathetic boyfriend ,and his fat paychecks to Eve, who really highly likely has no interest in him whatsoever, anyway.

This is not about Eve this is about you and your greed, and/or your insecurity. It could be either just the greed ,or just the insecurity, or it could be both. I dont know you , but that is definatly what the very high likelyhood looks like.

Saying Eve is a golddigger is pathetic to say the least . At the very worst she may have been somebody who was vulnerable and lonely and let men use her.

I have mentioned to you what a REAL goldigger is .YOU may even be one yourself. Eve doesnt even sound like a goldigger at all, I am sorry to say , but YOU do, or you could just be somebody who is REALLY very insecure and jealous , and not telling,OR KNOWING, the whole story WHATSOEVER, and making your own assumption , based on your insecurity.

Maybe Eve was a slut-(a slut is somebody that is easy to get into bed,but does NOT exchange this for material things or money) (AT THE VERY WORST SHE WAS A SLUT) at one point due to emotional reasons perhaps that may go very deep.?

Also maybe she could have had male friends who she was affectionate with (AS IN HUGS AND HOLDING HANDS) but she may actually never have had sex with them, that is also a possiblity.

OR the guys knew she didnt want this to go further because she made it VERY clear,because as woman are, they usually only want affection and closeness, especially when vulnerable,and they really dont want sex!!! BUT THE MEN- they WANT SEX!! AND THEY WILL try VERY HARD to push for sex ,and see just how far they can get , despite a VERY clear NO. She could have given in, due to being gullible and seeking closeness.

BUT if she was a real goldigger she would have really cashed those guys out , and how do you know that she didnt give back equally, since none of the guys are available for interviews apparently??????I mean really, this does not make ANY logical sense.

Come on holy,holy pretender I have interviewed woman like you and I KNOW:

1) You are either a goldigger yourself and insecure and scared to loose your rich, and SPOILING boyfriend to another woman.( who isnt even interested at all)


OR/AND

2) You are a very insecure and a very jealous person.

DO SOME SOUL SEARCHING BEFORE YOU POINT FINGERS AT TOTALLY INNOCENT PEOPLE, AND PERHAPS, FOR ONCE, SEE THAT IT IS PERHAPS YOUR BOYFRIEND WHO IS A LIAR AND A CHEAT!!!!

Detective.

Dear writer!

Sounds like you lost a boyfriend to Eve and are afraid he will start spending his money on Eve and not you.Ever thought of the fact the Eve may not be interested at all , and that is is your lying ,cheating boyfriend who told lies and is manipulating?

Why did you go for somebody that has alot of money AND SPLASHES THAT MONEY OUT ON YOU?? WOULD YOU STILL HAVE CONSIDERED DATING THE PERSON IF THEY DIDNT SPLASH THE MONEY OUT ON YOU ,

AND IF YOU HAVE TO COUGH UP 50 PERCENT OF EVERYTHING THAT NEEDS TO BE PAID FOR??

Probably not........ makes me think........??Just because Eve might have been with more guys does not make her a goldigger at all.

YOU are the goldigger and you very likely chased after somebody with stacks of cash and were bitter when that somebody approached another girl , Eve,who
didnt even know that this guy was in another relationship at all , or may really not even have been interested whatsoever.

You really seem like a very selfish and insecure person , who has no abililty to think of all the other possibilites .

Im disgusted by your narrowminded and selfish attitude.

Why do woman like yourself ,Kathleen Richards always condem sluts,prostitutes and the like when some married woman , are often the biggest GOLDIGGER prostitutes that exist in the universe!

What is a prostitute?? : Some one that exchanges sex for money and material things.AND IS VERY HONEST ABOUT IT.

What is a goldigger? Someone who plans of STEALING a persons entire fortune ,never mind a couple of pathetic lunches and dinners. ( which could be an unwritten mutual agreement-and both parties would have been happy with that)In this case you dont even know if Eve also paid every second time around. YOU DONT EVEN KNOW THAT! i REALLY DONT BELIEVE THOUGH THAT SHE EXCHANGED SEX FOR MATERIAL THINGS THOUGH,BY THE SOUNDS OF IT.

JUST BECAUSE SHE MIGHT HAVE HAD MORE RELATIONSHIPS THAN YOU AND NEVER FOUND THE IDEAL PARTNER JUST YET, DOES NOT MEAN THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH HER. BUT THERE IS SOMETHING SERIOUSLY WRONG AND SELFISH AND INCONSIDERATE ABOUT YOU FOR EVEN THINKING AND SUGGESTING THAT!!!!!!! THESE GUYS REALLY SOUND LIKE ASSHOLE GUYS THAT WERE TRYING THEIR HARDEST TO USE HER FOR SEX , AND NOT HER USEING THEM !!!!( if I sum up everything, and read betwee the lines it really sound like they were actually useing her)

JUST YOU BE VERY GLAD KATHLEEN , THAT YOU DIDNT HAVE TO GO THROUGH A ALOT OF ASSHOLE GUYS AND FOUND YOUR RIGHT PARTNER THE FIRST OR SECOND TIME AROUND!! JUST YOU BE DAMN THANKFULL FOR THAT, AND BE DAMN THANKFULL ALSO THAT YOU WERE NOT USED BY MEN , AND LET MEN USE YOU , DUE TO EMOTIONAL REASONS.(I have told you many times before, I am totally convinced of Eves innocence, and that she was actually not exchanging sex for anything material, in the worst event if she was , she is still a much better person than some of you ever so self-rioghteus married goldiggers.

But I am sure sponging off your husband for a lifetime and planning to STEAL ( yes thats exatly what it is ) his entire fortune , which took him a lifetime to work for , is not a crime then ?????????????????????????????????????????

Just because she had many guy friends , doesnt mean that she slept with all of them at all, first of all!!! Why do some people always have to see guy /girl friends
as walking genitals . GET A GRIP!! WHY CANT PEOPLE FOR ONCE BE HUMAN AND SEE EACH OTHER IN A NEUTRAL WAY .YOU are the one thinking with your bum if you see every woman as: THERE MUST BE SOMETHING going on with a guy and a girl!!!

So tell me Kathleen Richards : Who pays for the bond in your relationship? Who pays for the petrol? Who pays for the children if you are married? If your man pays 70 percent and you only 30 percent,for example, I suggest you keep very quiete!!!You are a faaar worse prostitute than the ones you are pointing fingers at. If you are not paying HALF of ALL the bills that need to be paid, I suggest you better rethink this very carefully, and look at yourself very carefully!!

Even if you earn less than your husband- Why should he pay all the bills ? Do you perhaps make an effort to get a better education ?Or to get a better paying job , so that you can pay half and be fair to him that way?Or is it just very convenient to have somebody else pay for your ENTIRE LIFE,pension,life insurance , house , and car??

See, you ( married woman) are often the worst form of prostitution in existance , but you want to have the audacity to point fingers at sluts and prostitutes. You didnt even speak to those guys and make very damn sure your serious allegations are actaully correct.

Where would you be today if it was not for your husband/boyfriend???On the street? Where would you be, exatly?

NIce and convenient having somebody else do all the hard work for you, and you just have to lie on your back. The worst however is : you are not honest about any of this the way a prostitute is , are you?? You still make your husband believe you love them and put on a big act, when you would never even so much as have considered to marry him , if he didnt spend the money he earn s on you, if you cant get a house ,and car and decent pension from him.

Shame on all you self-righteuos , married or to be married woman-Those with selfish and dishonest intentions entirely !!! If you want to throw the first stone you had BETTER be sure than you are squicky clean first.

BY THE WAY I VERY,VERY MUCH DOUBT THAT EVE WAS WITH ALL THESE GUYS AT THE SAME TIME .THEY WOULD DEFINATLY HAVE NOTICED THAT ,AND IT DOESNT SOUND AT ALL AS IF SHE WOULD DO THAT AT ALL

YOU HAVENT EVEN QUESTIONED THE GUYS .and HOW DO YOU KNOW IF EVE DID NOT PAY EQUALLY FOR DINNERS AND LUNCHES ??

BY EVEYTHING THAT I GET, IGET THAT THE MEN USED HER ,BECAUSE SHE WAS AN EASY, AND EASY TO MANIPULATE TARGET,AND NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!i DONT THINK SHE WAS SPONGING OFF THEM, AND IN THE EVENT THAT SHE WAS , (WHICH PERSONALLY i REALLY,REALLY DOUBT)but IF SHE WAS-THE GUYS WOULD HAVE AGREED TO THAT. iT WOULD THEN HAVE BEEN AN HONEST AGREEMENT.

HOW ABOUT MANY MARRIED WOMAN THOUGH? IT IS CERTAINLY NEVER AN HONEST AGREEMENT IF SHE GOES BEHIND HIS BACK AND IS ATTEMPTING TO JUST GET HIS MILLIONS,AND DURING THE MARRIAGE LET HIM PAY FOR ALL THE EXPENSES.

HOW ABOUT YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND /OR BOYFRIEND THOUGH:
IS THERE ANY HONESTY INVOLVED PERHAPS? WOULD YOU STILL BE WITH HIM IF HE DIDN T PAY FOR LITERALLY EVERYTHING IN YOUR LIFE, AND FOR YOUR FUTURE, AND IF HE WAS EARNING PEANUTS??AND WOULD YOU STILL BE WITH HIM IF HE EXPECTED YOU TO PAY HALF OF EVERYTHING THAT NEEDS TO BE PAID for??? WOULD YOU BE WITH HIM IF HE WAS EARNING PEANUTS?

I actually really think that Eve is actually honest , and was never planning to be more than friends, but that the men tried their luck . What I get is that she definatly was not the one to initiate things at all, and that she really did initially just want to be friends, but gave in due to lonliness, low self esteem .. etc,which men take huge advantage of.

If she was a real golddiger, she would just go for rich men that spoil her rotten and would not just have a child with ANYONE.

WARNING SIGNS OF REAL GOLDIGGERS ARE:

( REMEMBER goldiggers can be male OR female)

The BIGGEST sign ,which is difficult to disguise and hide , is that they are generally very lazy people, who have long term plans of STEALING EVERYTHING which somebody else worked very hard for their entire life. Because they have no work ethic, no integrity,(and often just pretend to have ambition) but are actually very lazy, they will never work in their life for a long period of time for little money.

They might have worked for little money for a SHORT period of time, such as in student days because they had to , but they will not work HARD or LONG HOURS for little money for VERY LONG PERIODS of time. Never.They will still spin you this story of how hard they had to work in their student days for example , when they dont even know the meaning of hard work ,or working long hours for no pay.

They will see where they can get quick and easy money for no effort, and I am not talking about when they are desperate. People that are in financial need and desperate may also need quick easy money, but Real goldiggers will ALWAYS and ONLY work for quick ,easy money.They will usaully also overcharge people, because they will not work HARD or LONG for little money!!!

1) They will pretend to like all the things you like,such as hobbies etc and put on a huge act that he/she loves you. Will also try to please person in bed, especially if she is a woman going for a man , as she will know men are into sex.

2)Will only go out / and have a HISTORY of only having gone out with rich men/woman who are not stingy , and who will spend their money on the other person. They will never have gone out with somebody poor, or average or rich who does not pay for this and pay for that .They WILL go out with poor, and average people, provided that person pays for the great majority of all bills .

3)Will quickly end a relationship if he/she sees that he/she is not getting material gain the way they hoped.

4)Warning signs in early dating are :
Expects the other person to pay for everything. ESPECIALLY letting the other person pay for the very much largest portion of rent, petrol , clothing, and anytime they go out ,letting the other person pay the largest portion,while only contributing a menial percent to everything that needs to be paid for themselves.

WIll often even lie about their income so that they can get away with paying only a menial part of everything.

5) Making no effort to improve on education or get a better job to make the payments a TRUE 50/50 deal.

6)Coming up with very lame and pathetic excuses that they need to stay at home even once their children have gone to school , and they are actually in a perfect position to start working again,but just want to stay at home and do nothing , for as long as possible.

7) VERY TYPICAL IS: Saying that the children and household are soooo much work, when in reality if you filmed them secretly, you will find out the housework and work with the children does not take as long AT ALL , as they always pretend!!!!

....you will ACTUALLY find the housework and children take up maximum two to four hours a day depending - MAXIMUM.(Who in the working world has a three hour day?) The rest of the day they SECRETLY spend watching TV and having a gossip with friends at the local coffe shop , and spending husbands money on a shopping spree. ( By the way I have done the housework and children thing, I really do know how long it takes, AND I am neat and take do the work properly) Sorry Goldiggers ,there is no exuse you can try and rub in my face here!!!

I wish that somebody would do a secret camera thing with the spoilt brat housewives to catch them out on all their lies and excuses, so that they can forever continue their lazy and entirely self-serving life of luxury at someone elses expense.

8)Goldiggers will push for rich men to marry them very EARLY on in the relationship , before they loose their darling goldbags to another person.....

Community of property OR NOT -does not matter-
Community of property marriage pushers are the biggest warning sign!!,....
however even if they are not in community ,if hubi pays for almost everything all the time,its still a very big reason to stick around, is it not?

A goldigger will definatly accept both-provided of course that the rich husband is not a stingy type, and will pay LITERALLY FOR EVERYTHING that needs to be paid for, or will pay a very great amount of what needs to be paid for,-while the other party will contribute perhaps 5 percent, if at all.

9)Goldiggers will get out of a relationship quite soon if their goldbags dont marry them SOON, before there is the danger of loosing their goldbags to somebody else....They will not wait around for a rich guy for ever, unless maybe he already always spoils her rotten... and will continue doing so if they are married of course...

Some might use the excuse that they want children and are pushed for time, just so that their precious pot of gold will marry them . ( Not because they really want children) Just step carefully here , because there are both types , those that are pushed for time and really want children , and those that are not , and dont actually want children.

Remember that child maintainance pays out much more than what the child actually costs, which the law should never ,ever allow!!However ,because this IS so, you get some woman who will pretend to want children from rich dads , just to cash out on the child maintainance in the end. They then go and spend that money, not on their children ,but on themselves.

(Typical example is the selfish goldigger FLING of BORIS who deliberatly fathered a child with Boris Becker for financial gain!!!)

10)Very typical also is pretending that they are soooo overworked ( yes , I was a houseman(average size house) and a father,and child carer (3 kids) for a long time myself, I do know) -

Pretending they are sooo overworked they need a househelp to help clean ,and to help look after the children. Husband who initially doesnt know how quickly things CAN actually be done , then still forks out for THAT as well , -besides all the luxuries he already gives the spoilt brat.

The best thing to do to prevent goldiggers is :

11) Let her/him(remember it can be both genders) pay HALF Of literally EVERYTHING that needs to be paid for, and see how long the relationship lasts. Will she still stick around if she needs to pay for HALF OF water, rent , electricity , all meals and also yes,

also HALF OF THE BOND!!!!!THE BOND BEING SUCH A MASSIVE EXPENSE!!!! HALF, not one tenth,not one quarter but HALF!!!Remember this!!!

Test this for AT LEAST three to five years before you even CONSIDER to marry her.

12) If for some reason she earns much less and cant pay half at the moment , then lower your stand of living. Go live in a small apartment block so that she can pay half of the rent /bond , water ,electricity and half of all meals.You MUST lower your stand of life or else she could still use you for having a high standard of life for herself , which she could never afford herself.How convenient if she shares your massive house and only ever has to pay 10 percent of the bond , which she would never be able to do on her own.

13) Dont take her out to expensive restaurants and hotels all the time, because that is begging for trouble, and not knowing how genuine she is.You will just HAVE TO drop your standard of life- there is NO other option to see if she means it honestly.Just plain simply dont buy her any gifts at all, not even cheaper ones.End of story.She can buy her own things if she wants them.

14) IN SHORT: if she cant pay half of everything, lower your standard of life and THEN let her pay half of everything.

15) Never IN YOUR ENTIRE LIFE let her know that you, OR YOUR FAMILY are rich , or she could be clinging to you for money and security .

THE BASIC RULE IS LET HER PAY HALF OF LITERALLY -EVERYTHING
AND I MEAN HALF OF EVERYTHING:

WOMAN NOWADAYS ALSO HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO MAKE MONEY ,AND TO HAVE A GOOD PAYING EDUCATION, AND A GOOD PAYING JOB.WE ARE NOT IN THE EARLY PART OF THE CENTURY ANY MORE , AT ALL, WHERE WOMAN WERE PAID LESS, AND WHERE THEY ONLY HAD VERY LIMITED OPTIONS.WE DO NOT LIVE IN THAT AGE ANY LONGER ,AT ALL.!!!

-IF SHE CANT AFFORD IT,AT THE MOMENT ,DROP YOUR STANDARD OF LIFE AND THEN- LET HER LITERALLY PAY HALF OF EVERYTHING. LET HER PAY HALF OF EVERYTHING -

NOT,NOT JUST IN THE FIRST COUPLE OF MONTHS,TO TEST HER,- BUT FOR EVER AND EVER AS LONG AS YOU ARE TOGETHER- OF ELSE YOU WILL JUST NEVER KNOW WHY SHE IS WITH YOU!!!